What should the social worker first discuss with a client experiencing feelings about a partner's illness?

When working with a client who is experiencing feelings about a partner's illness, the priority should be to explore and validate the client's emotions related to this significant life event. Discussing their feelings about the partner's illness allows the social worker to create a safe and supportive space for the client to express their thoughts and emotions. This is crucial because the client's emotional well-being directly impacts their ability to cope with the situation and make informed decisions moving forward.

Understanding and processing these feelings can help the client gain clarity, release pent-up emotions, and begin to navigate the complexities of the situation involving their partner’s health. By starting with the client's emotional experience, the social worker establishes rapport and demonstrates empathy, which is vital for building trust in the therapeutic relationship. This approach lays the groundwork for addressing other concerns such as coping strategies, work situations, or financial issues that may arise later in the conversation once the emotional aspects have been adequately addressed.